I know it has been a while since I last posted. Lots have been going on with the family.
As everyone knows, I love both of my kids. I tell them all the time that I love them to the moon and back.
I am confused when it comes to James. I thought I had this transiting under control – wrong. I am good that James feels like a boy and now dressed like a boy (he has done this for months now). The thing I am confused about is his clothes. Some days he is dressed like a boy and other days not so much. He sometimes dressed is burgundy leggings, flower headband, or hat. This is just some examples. How do I take him seriously when he sometimes dresses like a girl. This is so hard for my ex and I when he dresses like this. I feel this reinforces my ex thoughts that this might be a phase. I know in my heart of hearts that it isn’t. I don’t understand how he can dress like both a boy and girl.
I know that it shouldn’t matter how he dresses and there is no right way to dress. I guess I am still old fashion and you dress what sex you identify with.
Any help or advice would be great.