This is my first attempt at a blog. My name is Beverly and am 47 years old with 2 amazing children. At present, I have a 13 and 15 year old. My 13 year old has told me that he is trans. I live in Toronto, Ontario, Canada.
I am starting this blog to help other parents and maybe get suggestions. This is a way that I can tell people what I am going through. I was bugging my son to start a blog to help other children and then I thought since he isn’t – I would.
It’s odd, looking back on the adventure we are on, I have learnt it is only a name. The child remains the same. This is a hard thing to remember. It’s amazing what we associate with a name.
It’s amazing after James came out, he wasn’t so sick. This goes to show you how stress can affect a person. The peeling of the hand and feet went away. Him sleeping 14 hours a day went away. Him feeling like he has no energy went away. He has always been a happy child but he is so much happier now.
Please forgive me if I make mistakes. This is all new to me and I am still learning.
I would like to thank my family, friends, and colleagues for their ongoing support. This means so much.
I look forward to the adventure…….and knowing my son.
I really hope the above link works. This made me cry.
The school were James goes is having a field trip in September. This field trip is at a camp in September for 3 days. This is great, he is excited and so am I. As I was looking over the form, the school included a rooming request list. On the request list, it asks who the student would like to room with. Great, no problem then came the line student needs to room with same sex. Ok, this is fine but…….who should James room with? I know he identifies as a boy but over my dead body will he sleep in a cabin with all boys. I do understand some parents who have children that identify as girls, might be uncomfortable with James. The first thing that came to mind is WTF. I am taking a deep breath and I will wait until August to see what happens.
So the date of the Identity Party is set for this Monday. James and I are so excited. At one point James took over the planning of the party which is fine. He has decided to serve hamburgers, hot dogs and salad. He has even planned some games and activities for his friends. It is going to be small since he decided to have it on the long weekend. LOL
Friends and family are coming so this will be a good day.
I am so proud of him.